Episodes

Dec. 18, 2019

Well, Once You Feed a Stray Cat....GAY

Well our little stray cats, we made it. It's our final episode of Season 1 and we are going out with a bang. Enjoy this classic Bobby & Jim style conversation about what Jim has been up to, Bobby's trip to Dallas and how his ...

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Dec. 11, 2019

Trans is Beautiful with Roxy Nikole

Hello beautiful people! This week Bobby (stoned) and Jim (mustached) sit down with a local drag superstar, Roxy Nikole (also stoned). She lets us know how she got into drag and met her best friend Eris Grey (who also makes d...

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Dec. 4, 2019

I'm a Sugar Baby

**NSFW** In this weeks episode, Bobby and Jim let their hair down (or lack there of) and meet Kelsey and Varsha, who happen to be sugar babies. Bobby was having a good ole time during the episode so things get a little wild ...

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Nov. 27, 2019

Let Us Give Thanks / Thanksgiving Gay and Straight Perspectives

This week on SNDSW we are joined once again by our dear friend Carrie. Bobby and the Jim discuss what they're most grateful for and it sounds like it's.....getting tip-saaaay. Surprise! They share stories that we can all rela...

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Nov. 20, 2019

Plenty O' Cookies / Gay Drag Queen Baker

This week the guys speak to such a kindhearted fun person, Alex Copeland aka Plenty O' Smiles. Alex is a Columbus drag queen (Plenty O' Smiles) who is known for her amazing huge smile. He took his drag talents and became a ba...

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Nov. 13, 2019

Manifest What We Want / Spirituality Talk With Manjii

The time has finally come for our studio interview with Manjii. The insightful, spiritual, free two spirit Manjii gives us everything we want and more. We talk about standing up for how you feel, human intuition, soul mates, ...

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Nov. 5, 2019

Death and All Their Friends / Coping with Death

" Death is like a mirror in which the true meaning of life is reflected" - Sogyal Rinpoche "You needn’t die happy when your time comes, but you must die satisfied, for you have lived your life from the beginning to the end." ...

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Oct. 29, 2019

O Canada / Featuring Transgender Comedian Tranna Wintour

O...you want to know what this week is about? It's all Canada and all good! The guys travel to Montreal to visit and also meet with one of the most genuine amazing humans Tranna Wintour. "Tranna Wintour is a spiritual, pop-cu...

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Oct. 23, 2019

Highlights For Gays - Perception of the gay community

In this episode the boys talk about a bunch of random topics. Bobby and Mike got their hot tub and Jim just got back from Portland. Grilled cheese becomes a hot topic with a caller upset at the jam on the grilled cheese. We t...

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Oct. 15, 2019

When You Call Your Wife "Mother", You Have To Wonder (if you're gay) …

Autumn, also known as fall in North American English, is one of the four temperate seasons. Autumn marks the transition from summer to winter. This week, Bobby is forced to apologize for his excessive use of the “F” word. The...

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Oct. 8, 2019

I Am Going To Throw Up But Not Because You're Gay - Coming Out

In this long awaited episode we finally tell you about our coming out stories. First, we recap the weekend and more importantly how Bobby ended up in the back of a police car. We talk about Jims trip to Portland and Bon Iver ...

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Oct. 1, 2019

You Like the Way My Voice Sounds? - Catch Up / Gay Speech / Etc

Autonomous Sensory Meridian Response (ASMR), sometimes Auto Sensory Meridian Response,is an experience characterized by a static-like or tingling sensation on the skin that typically begins on the scalp and moves down the bac...

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Sept. 24, 2019

This is Not About You - Foster-Care / IVF

A parent is a caregiver of the offspring in their own species. In this episode we dig into learning about what it's like to become a foster parent. We welcome Carrie from Mission Market in studio for her experiences on becomi...

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Sept. 17, 2019

Keep Your Respite / Gay Community and Gay Bars

For they gave me respite from labor and rested me and refreshed my spirit as well as yours. Deeply appreciate and thoroughly know and fully recognize such men. - 1 Corinthians 16:18 Community is a feeling of fellowship with o...

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Sept. 11, 2019

I Feel Like the Universe is About Me...So...I Just Am...About the Uni…

Could this be the best worst episode in SNDSW history (all 5 episodes worth of history). Hold on tight for a real roller coaster of information and back and forth banter and laughter. In this week's episode we meet Dave, a fe...

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Sept. 3, 2019

Uniquely Ordinary - Mental Health When You are Gay

Have you ever felt anxious or depressed? What about feeling pressure from society and family to be what they want you to be? Join us this week as we discuss what triggers our anxiety and how we have gotten through some of the...

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Aug. 27, 2019

I'm a Bear and I am Hot - Gay Educational Terminology

Twink? Bear? Otter? Chubby Chaser? U-Haul Lesbian? Queer? Are you as confused as we are? Bobby and Jim look into the world of specific gay cultures and terminology. What do they mean? Tune in to find out how not so familiar t...

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Aug. 27, 2019

Actually, I Don't - Heartbreak/ Ending a Wedding

Heartbreak hurts and you don’t even know why sometimes. Bobby & Jim decide to dive into the world of heartbreak, because why not. Looking back on breaking up and feeling sad, sometimes it's needed to grow. The universe has f...

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Aug. 27, 2019

She's Got 99 Problems and a Bitch is One - Dating Gay & Straight

Everybody dates and everybody hates it for the most part. In this episode Bobby and Jim dive in and talk about their experiences dating. As you know the conversation goes in many different directions.Tune in to listen to the ...

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Aug. 21, 2019

Please Take A Moment And Search For The Nearest Gay Exit

Meet Bobby and his best bud Jim. A recipe for disaster stemming from an unexpected encounter in a Denver Panera, She’s Not Doing So Well is an irreverent yet empathetic look at everyday life through an LGBTQ+ lens. Co-hosts ...

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Aug. 16, 2019

She's Not Doing So Well - WHO ARE WE? COME FOLLOW US

Hilarious and unique to put it nicely. When we launched the comedy-oriented “She’s Not Doing So Well” podcast in summer of 2019, we wanted to bring to light unpopular opinions and obscure takes on what it means to be queer. W...

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